It’s an actual update!

15 Dec

Not just me rattling on about my beliefs and how I raise my kids! I feel like I’m getting caught up in the ho-hum of being a birth advocate and a parent. I didn’t used to be like this, I swear. Back in my “blogging days” — which, was just me spewing bullshit from my fingers on livejournal and myspace — I would write posts that were short, sweet, and very much to the point (along with very rude, judgmental, and littered with dislike). Blogging, to me, used to be about just getting something off of my chest, and as a 18-21 year old, I had a lot of shit that bothered me. In the past I’ve actually gone back and read my blogs and you can just see my life wasn’t going anywhere fun. I tried to be silly and witty, but all I did was come off as a big asshole.

But now that I actually blog for value, I feel like I’m missing out on that care free blogging that I used to do, where I just talked about my day and what’s going on in my life. So THAT’S what we’re going to do today!

Where to start?! I guess I’ll start back in the middle of November. Brad’s birthday was November 15th. He got Call of Duty: Black Ops from me. I mean, he actually bought and paid for it himself, because while he was so excited about the game he was practically pissing his pants, I had other things to do, like keep two little girls occupied and shop for breast pads. We didn’t really do anything special for his birthday. I’m not even sure I cooked him a nice, fancy, “you’re getting so old” birthday dinner. NO! I didn’t. I went and got pizza instead. And the only reason I remember that for a fact is because I was sneaky and bought him an ice cream cake at Baskin Robbins that is right next to the pizza place. So I win brownie points for that one. Extra points because the colors on the small (but oh so yummy) ice cream cake were Bengals (orange and black) colors. And as my husband is from Ohio, it was only fitting for his 28th birthday. (See? Old.)

November 16th was our 3 year anniversary. No, we didn’t do anything special that day. In fact, the things we did do had nothing to do with us celebrating our anniversary what-so-ever! We took Ophelia to her 2 month check up. We showed the doctor that her skin condition was gone (thank goodness! That was horrible), she weighed in a whooping 12lbs 12oz and 23″ long. Now real quick, I’m gonna go ahead and put some information out there. My two kids are completely different. They will always be individuals, blah blah blah. But Reilly…well…she was and still is, a small kid. My “skinny minnie” if you will. I actually went back and found HER two month check up paper work. She weighted 10lbs and 4 oz or so. Ophelia had TWO POUNDS on Reilly and at least an inch and a half. Okay, back to the story…Ophelia was in the 80th percentile for weight and I think 57th for height. My fat baby. (Currently, if I weigh her on my scale with me, she’s clocking in at 15lbs!)

Then, Brad went and picked up his mom at the airport. She stayed with us for two weeks so she could visit since..well…there was a baby now. Unfortunately, she got sick in the middle of her trip, which, lets face it, is NEVER fun. I felt bad. We didn’t get to go do anything really fun…I mean, we got to go to the beach and Ophelia got to go in the ocean for the first time, which was exciting. We had Thanksgiving here with friends and my mother in law, and it was almost like being home. I love having people in my house for big events….makes me feel all lovey and homey.

So we said goodbye to my mother in law on November 30th. The weekend after that, we went and got our Christmas tree and trimmings and decorated the house! I love Christmas time. And having a tree and lights up makes it feel a little more like back home. Makes me remember cuddling up in the house under a blanket with candles and watchin a movie.

Anyway! So here we are, 9 days before Christmas (YAY!!). Ophelia is officially three months old now. It just seems like time has gone by wayyy too fast. She’s holdin her head up, she wants to sit up so bad. I got my first laugh the other day! It’s just amazing that the time has gone by so fast. She isn’t my little new born anymore, she’s my baby. I do miss her sleeping all day though. I think she’s getting close to a growth spurt. Trouble sleeping, wanting to nurse almost all day…or maybe her personality is just starting to come out and she isn’t the easy baby we thought we had.

After Christmas is my birthday. I’ll be 26. (January 20) It’ll be the first time that Brad is with me for my birthday since we’ve been married. So to be blunt, it better be an awesome birthday. Then its tax return time. Which I always love. We never save it, which we probably should, but this year we have to pay our landlord our deposit on our place (which we never did…thankfully, I’m not sure where we would have pulled that $2400 out of), we’re buying me a car so I can actually leave the house with the girls during the day, and I don’t have to rely on Brad to get off of work and come get us when we need to go somewhere. I’ll also be able to get stuff done during the day, like grocery shopping or whatever. I’m pretty excited about that. We’re also PLANNING (nothing is set in stone yet) on buying plane tickets to go visit BOTH our families in Washington and Ohio NEXT December. I’ve been looking at plane tickets, even though I can’t look for December, I just plug in October to get an idea of what we’re going to have to pay. For all 4 of us (since Ophelia will be a lap baby) it’ll cost about $3000 just to fly everywhere. We’d be renting a car in Ohio I’m sure, since *hopefully* my parents would be cool with us using their car for a couple weeks. (But I don’t want to assume, so I’ll have to ask) so somewhere around $3500. Which, really, doesn’t seem that bad. I still haven’t decided the order. At first I figured we’d fly to Washington first, but the last Christmas we spent somewhere, was Ohio, and I haven’t spent Christmas with my family since then….so we’ll see. One of my only stipulations though is that I want a connecting flight from the west coast to Ohio so we don’t have to have the girls on the plane for a ridiculous amount of time. Granted, Ophelia will be one already, and that should be a little easier than flying with her as an infant, and Reilly will be 5 and a half.

Ohhhhh shit. Reilly will be 5 and a half and IN SCHOOL. Well, just something we’ll have to work around. Maybe we’ll just have to make visits before school starts. Fuck.

So, that’s a long update. But it’s been awhile. I just haven’t really thought about making an actual life update! I’ve been so busy thinking about other stuff and busy with the kids.

More to come soon. <3

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